I’ve been very fortunate in life. I’ve had a lot go my way. I’ve worked my tail off as well, no question, but I’ve had luck on my side for most of my life. I hear that Ben Franklin quote running through my head right now, “The harder I work, the luckier I seem to get!”
Of all the beautifulness that has flowed in my direction over the years, the things I’ve cherished most are the relationships I’ve created. There are some special people on this planet, and I’ve been lucky enough to meet several of them, one of whom I’m hoping to spend the rest of my life with.
It makes me think, why do we work so hard? What’s the ‘end goal’? And every way you slice it, it always comes back to people.
“I want to provide for my family.”
“I want to be able to give back.”
Or, slightly less idealistic..
“I want to be able to impress (girlfriend, husband, women, men, etc.).”
Almost everything we do, we do for others. Whether it be altruistic, or out of a negative energy, like fear or jealously, another human is the catalyst. That’s why, I believe, if you have positive relationships, your life can’t help but be a positive one. If people are the catalyst of every decision we make, and we love those around us, wouldn’t every decision we make be out of love? And on the contrary, if we were jealous of those around us, envious of what they “have” or “who” they have, wouldn’t every decision we make be out of jealousy? Either way, people are the catalyst.
If we can cherish the relationships we have, and constantly build positive relationships with everyone we come into contact with, I believe (in a selfish way), your life will have to be a positive one. One filled with love. Peace. By always keeping “the relationship” at the forefront of our minds, whether it be with our spouse, our co-worker, or a complete stranger, our actions and decisions will always be positive ones, because we will always be thinking of the other person’s wellbeing. And since we get what we give, the world will be FORCED to always be thinking about YOUR wellbeing. Reciprocity at its finest.
And that’s how I arrived at the first sentence: I’ve been very fortunate. I’ve been fortunate because I began my life with positive relationships. I didn’t have to go out and “seek” positivity, it found me. That’s like having the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow arrive at your front door. You didn’t have to go chasing it, it came to you. And for that, I’m forever grateful.
Thank you to all who’ve been a part of my life, you are my pot of gold.